I was talking to a friend about vibration and he said a curious thing. He said that 2 people with different vibrations in a relationship : it will be harder for the higher vibration to pull the lower vibraion up, than for the lower to pull the higher down .
I think I experienced this. I was all a twitter with this head spinning, love vibration, which was great. But then I began to feel off. The co-dependent set in and the anger set in and I felt so drained. I felt drained my the energy it took to have these power struggles and stress. I wanted to get us on a good solid footing. I actually would put my hand on his heart and pray to open it with my love. I could feel his stuckness, somewhere below his heart. But I kept feeling drained and mostly I feel like I could bust out of my seems with energy if I am not careful.
So has anyone heard that? That lower vibrations will pull you down easier than higher vibrations will pull you up?
Any suggestions about how to deal with this kind of stuckness in the future?
I think I experienced this. I was all a twitter with this head spinning, love vibration, which was great. But then I began to feel off. The co-dependent set in and the anger set in and I felt so drained. I felt drained my the energy it took to have these power struggles and stress. I wanted to get us on a good solid footing. I actually would put my hand on his heart and pray to open it with my love. I could feel his stuckness, somewhere below his heart. But I kept feeling drained and mostly I feel like I could bust out of my seems with energy if I am not careful.
So has anyone heard that? That lower vibrations will pull you down easier than higher vibrations will pull you up?
Any suggestions about how to deal with this kind of stuckness in the future?
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Re: Vibrational energy
Wed, January 30, 2008 - 8:32 PMDear Aschleigh,
I can see what your friend was talking about, particularly with the example that you gave. However, I wouldn't say that what you're talking about is a higher or lower vibration, it's two different expressions of the same vibration -- one is positive, the other is negative, but they're both forms of co-dependence. In that scenario, it is really easy to pull things down because the positive side is falsely painting everything as "good," and when the negativity interrupts that flow, the energy comes crashing down.
However, if you're talking about one's actual vibration, that is much more fixed, and a higher vibration can't be brought down. A deeper layer of "stuff" might come up for the one with the higher vibration, but they will still deal with that deeper layer from a place of greater clarity than the lower vibrational person can work at. When you get to a certain place of clarity, it doesn't matter what anyone else does because you'll be able to maintain that vibration no matter what, because it's not dependent on concepts or circumstances. It becomes easy to see people's actions for what they are, and not to take them personally, which allows you to stay centered even in the midst of intense negativity.