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I need help interpreting this dream. I have dreams of this ex sometimes. Last night I dreamt that I was at a really nice house and I realized that my ex's house was in the nieghborhood. I had to swim across a pond to get up to the property. Then I went to the house and no one was home but this random guy, I asked if my ex was there, he said no but that I could go up to his room. I went up the stairs to his room, it was messy and seemed lived in even though he wasn't there. I looked around and then I left. When I was about to swim across the pond again to the other house I realized I had a back pack of stuff. I must have taken it from his room , i looked ino the bag and there were a bunch of wires like telephone wires all in a bundle. I closed the bag and jumped into the pond to swim back to the other house.
What do you think?
The emotional content was that I was sneaking around and he was going to be mad that I was in his room. Also the wires interest me, He is an IT guy, very heady, very in his head and works with lots of wires. Did I sheak into his room and remove some wires? Or re-wire some stuff figuritively. Maybe it was my head that was rewired.
What do you think?
The emotional content was that I was sneaking around and he was going to be mad that I was in his room. Also the wires interest me, He is an IT guy, very heady, very in his head and works with lots of wires. Did I sheak into his room and remove some wires? Or re-wire some stuff figuritively. Maybe it was my head that was rewired.
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Re: Dream I need help with...
Wed, September 9, 2009 - 1:24 AM
Dear Aschleigh,
Based on my intuition and some limited dream interpretation training...
The water in this dream represents the sub-conscious, and it seems you have developed good dream awareness.
The subconscious deals with things that we are unable to directly look at, so working symbolically and dreams is helpful.
The subconscious also connects to the collective-subconscious... and the collective connection starts from actual people you are connected to. You can imagine under your feet represents the subconscious, behind you is the unconscious, in front of you the conscious, and above you the super-consciousness. All the field around you, and also inside you represents your full aura/energy-field.
I would examine that way you connect your subconscious consciousness/energy with other men. It seems your dream is hinting that you are connecting through the subconscious telepathically to other people. When you go into their houses, you are literally stepping into their energy body and looking at what is going on with them. The house being "lived in" but him not there, also indicates that person is not really aware of that part of his house. He's likely upstairs, perhaps on the roof. There may even be another building built on top of that house, and maybe even another structure above that. If you notice a basement, that is deeper in the subconscious.
Water is also feelings, emotions, and sexuality sometimes. Notice how dark the water was as well.
Now... intuitively... I could be totally wrong...
It is you who is looking for him, leaving your own beautiful house looking for some one who is no longer available to you. It seems like you have a lot of affection towards this person, almost like a mother or healer, but it also seems he's avoiding/hiding away. I would suggest to investigate why you feel the unconscious/subconscious need to go after him as this might be draining you of energy, as well keeping you from moving forward in other aspects of life, i.e. holding yourself behind.
Namaste -
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Re: Dream I need help with...
Wed, September 9, 2009 - 12:41 PMThank you Only Now.
I do think I rumaged around in the part of him that he is not aware of. I seek him becasue I think he's in pain and shut down in a lot of way. I still want some things for him, like to be free of pain. But it would take him wanting that for himself to accomplish that. I have on a basic earth level given up on him in terms of I accept that he is where he is and that isn't with me nor is it open to talking or accepting my apologies for things I said. I have done all I can there. I have done work on myself in regards to forgiveness or accpetance. But frankly it bothers me that I think he is still in pain. Not under my control but that's how I love, I want to heal people I love of their pain. Only so much can be done with the unwilling of course. And I was attached to my own anger and depression for years and no amount of outer love shock me out of it, I eventually got tired of it and did things to make myself happier. I still struggle with it.
I am also in grad school for psychology , which means I examine these things all the time and it overflows into all my relationships. I have heard it takes a couple of years after psychology grad school to get a bit "normal" again in terms of not rumaging around everyone's brain all the time. I know it's disconcerting to say the least for people around me , especially if they haven't taken up their own inner worlds and sat down for a deep look.
I am like 10,000 times more aware of this stuff than this ex ( one reason it didn't work out). He hadn't heard of the concept of the unconscious before me. He doesn't work on that level, except he has all sorts of pain that leaks out everywhere that he doesn't acknowledge. This stuff is tough for me to look at ,who does it willingly and systemacally with lots of support from family and friends. It must seem like an impossible feat to examine one self if no one we knew ever did it.
I struggle with when to love and when to move on and how to move on and love at the same time. I do my best.
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